Do you think your significant other is your twin flame or just your soulmate? Find out the definition of twin flame and whether you’ve found yours here.
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He’s the one. It’s that sense of familiarity and the overwhelming feeling whenever he’s around. You can’t put your finger on it but being with him just makes sense. Your serendipitous meeting and similar quirks should mean something. Maybe they do. Maybe the universe, in all its divine cosmic glory, has reunited you with your Twin Flame. That’s a good thing, right? In some ways, yes. In other ways, no. Confused? Don’t worry. We’re here to walk you through it.
Before we get into the nitty-gritty of Twin Flames, we first need to define it. A Twin Flame is the other half of your soul. When you were born, your soul was split into two: the divine masculine and the divine feminine. You and your Twin Flame are these two divinities making up a whole. This strong cosmic relationship was placed in the world, so that the two could work together harmoniously for the betterment of mankind. If we were to create an analogy, your Twin Flame is the Yin to your Yang. The John Lennon to your Yoko Ono.
If you’ve ever wondered why you were the stronger and more aggressive personality in the relationship, then it’s probably because you are the divine masculine. A twin flame connection surpasses the restrictions we have placed upon genders. It does not necessarily mean that if you are born female, then you are automatically the divine feminine. This goes to saying that both divinities may be found in the same sex.
The Twin Flame connection may be found in our friends, family members, and most likely, in our lovers. If you have ever experienced a relationship that has turned your world upside down, it would be safe to check the signs if it could be considered as a Twin Flame relationship. Married couples that have had many favorable years while dating, but currently face major indifferences once married could be victims of a premature Twin Flame meeting. These indifferences may be in the form of a lifestyle change, addiction, and infidelity. These are the results of an escapism mindset, when one of the flames are not able to handle the vulnerability that the relationship brings. On the other hand, a best friend who has been with you for most of your life and has helped you in your holistic growth may also be recognized as your Twin Flame. This would then be considered a favorable union in the name of friendship.
Contrary to popular belief, not everyone has a Twin Flame. This particular type of cosmic connection is special. Some would even consider it rare, but don’t fret because more and more Twin Flames are surfacing as we approach the Age of Aquarius. It’s important to keep in mind that a Twin Flame is not a Soulmate or Karmic Relationship, which we’ve all experienced at some point in our lives. Many of us may even have multiple soulmates in a lifetime. A soulmate connection may bring along a deep and meaningful relationship, but would never have the intensity, depth, and understanding that a Twin Flame could bring. With all things considered, how would you know that you’ve met your Twin Flame?
New Hobbies and Interests
Before meeting your Twin Flame, you may start picking up new hobbies or skills that you never thought you could do. You could be in a time of your life when you are “on a roll” or on the verge of it. You’ll soon find out that these newfound hobbies are activities that your Twin Flame engages in.
Special First Meeting
Once you step into the same vicinity as your Twin Flame, you will notice their presence even if they are on the other side of the room. Your eyes may even lock for a few seconds and once you meet you will have an instant connection to your Twin Flame. It would feel as if you’ve known the person for a lifetime because technically you have.
Synchronicities
During a relationship with your Twin Flame, you will start noticing numerous synchronicities. These numbers could be anything. 11-11, 22-22, 5-5, or any number that has a special meaning to you. You may find them on your receipts, the time on your phone, and any other seemingly mundane occurrences. The most important number to watch out for is 11-11, as this is the symbol for spiritual ascension.
Similarities
Your Twin Flame is your mirror image. This means that you will have similar values, quirks, and even similar past experiences. Despite this, it is important to keep in mind that your Twin Flame is your opposite divinity. Your Twin Flame may not be as outgoing and extroverted as you and vice versa. Extrinsically your Twin Flame is your opposite, but spiritually this person is your missing whole.
Vulnerability
You will be extremely vulnerable to your Twin Flame. Most real-life Twin Flame partners have said that they were able to open up about their insecurities and personal problems to their Twin Flame on the get go. Once you start opening up, it will give way to introspection. Your outlook on life, goals, and priorities may change. These realizations may become too overwhelming and may cause a separation between you and your Twin Flame.
Twin Flame connections are magical, but also a lot of work. Most Twin Flames don’t even end up together. It is very common for a Twin Flame relationship to have a runner and a chaser. Some pairs may go through years of separation from their Twin Flame. They may end up marrying other people and leading completely different lives. This happens when the timing of your meeting is premature. Either you or your Twin Flame may not be ready to completely open themselves up to another person.
The best way to prevent this is to reach a level of acceptance and awareness with yourself. If it’s your partner who is experiencing the overwhelming intensity of the relationship, then let it go and let them be. There is nothing more destructive than forcing a Twin Flame relationship to prosper. In retrospect, the golden rule still stays the same; “If you can’t love yourself, how the hell are you gonna love somebody else.”, as Mama Ru would’ve said.
For my twin flame, Paolo
