We’re in the era of using MBTI and Zodiac signs to plan our future, but it can be tricky to separate them from real life—here’s how you can use them wisely
It has become a norm to ask people what their personality types or zodiac signs are. You’re introducing yourself in your class? Zodiac check. New work environment? You’re going to want to retake that 16 Personalities test. We use them to do a quick check on someone’s character, and others even go to the extent of looking at their compatibility rates. Not that there’s anything wrong with knowing these things, but how far should we take them when it boils down to real life? Before we depend on these tests, here are a few things you can keep in mind when you’re using them as references.
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Nothing wrong with knowing
Self-reflection has become prominent in the culture of Gen Z and we take it upon ourselves to know who we are, both good and bad. We like to read short summaries of our personality type and zodiac signs to check certain traits, and we go beyond by knowing other personalities too since it can help us in the near future. In this case, a little knowledge won’t hurt anybody.
A conversation starter
“What’s your zodiac sign?” We can’t even count the amount of times someone asked us this question, and we really can’t blame them since it’s an easy topic to talk about. It’s fun to entertain questions like these and there are moments when we use it as a joke if the vibe is right.
Use it lightly
As mentioned before, we like to read these things to know ourselves a bit more, but that doesn’t mean it’s our entire personality. There are certain traits that might not fit the criteria of what it means to be your zodiac sign, so try to avoid forcing it on yourself. On top of that, refrain from using them as a way to immediately judge a person’s character—a better basis for your judgement would still be their actions and words.
It’s not a scapegoat
Personality traits and zodiac signs are all fun and games until you use it as an excuse in certain situations. Prevent yourself from blurting out things that would involve traits and signs if the matter on hand is more serious since it’s not very admirable if you take that route. Instead, simply hold yourself accountable to what happened and learn from it.
Ground youself with reality
In the end, be more in-tune with what’s happening rather than the assumptions you have based on these signs and tests. Be in-tune with your emotions, be sensitive to those around you, and always go about things respectfully and responsibly. You’re your own person and letting yourself experience the good and the bad will be the best teachers in your life.